Why Did This Library Was Created In The First Place

Section 3: Evidence

Evidence Due To My Mental Illness Treatment Delay By My Parents

Admission Of Guilt By My Parents After Attempted Me Out For Me Complaining About Delayed Treatment And My Younger Brother’s Mental Illness Diagnosis In Germany.

Translation From Malay

Contact: Dad MY

[System] Dad MY turned off disappearing messages. Change timer

July 21, 2025

Please forgive all of Dad’s mistakes, okay.. because I didn’t look after Harish perfectly back then.

Sorry that Dad didn’t know Harish was being bullied while at the transit home.

Sorry for not bringing Harish to see a psychiatrist.

There really are a lot of wrongs I’ve done, because I didn’t know — or didn’t truly pay attention to — Harish’s mental health.

God willing, we will help Harish again.

Harish can stay at our house for as long as you want. No need to worry about looking for a place to rent.

Let’s live together in that house, okay.

12:09 PM

I am so sorry for all my ignorance that has hurt your entire life.

12:10 PM

Please forgive me

12:10 PM

There goes the assumption of innocence for the criminal law: Act 611, Child Act 2001, Section 31(4), where it stated:

“a parent or guardian or other person legally liable to maintain a child shall be deemed to have neglected him in a manner likely to cause him physical or emotional injury if, being able to so provide from his own resources, he fails to provide adequate food, clothing, medical or dental treatment, lodging or care for the child”

Not knowing the severity otherwise? Well, we can force a court order to investigate the whole A-Levels division for International Islamic School Of Malaysia. Also, my diary entries are there as well.

Indirect Admission Of Guilt By My Father After Receiving This Website’s Link + Corroborating Evidence To My Claims Of His Statement Of Delaying Treatment Due To Job Stigma.

Notice that once he went for “You write like this” in his first message. This meant that my father at least read the parts of “Mental Illnesses History” that contains me swearing at them. Otherwise, he would ignore it. Not to mention, he went for an attack instead of denial, so it is reasonable to assume that the facts were accurate. My father’s messages are sent at 16 September 2026.

Funnily enough we can also infer other things, where my father validated:

My “Job Stigma” claim: He withheld treatment because of his fear of job stigma. He told me no one will hire him because of his mental health.
My “Lazy” claim: I wrote a whole section about how he dismiss my neurological/psychiatric symptoms as a lack of effort. He replied, “you are just lazy.”
My need for the document: I literally made it public because he “change his stories.” He immediately changed the subject from medical neglect to my supposed laziness.
My “Liar” accusation: I spent paragraphs detailing how he shift the goalposts and make excuses. When confronted, he didn’t say “I’m sorry” or “Let’s talk.” He shifted the blame straight onto me.

Note To Self

The reason why I deleted messages multiple times because I want to avoid the “edited” tag that could raise doubts to anyone. Hence, I would delete and redo the writing for these messages multiple times until I am satisfied with these messages.

First Diary Record Of Me Asking For Treatment During A-Levels

Notice that it is 9th January 2019. I was born in 23rd January 2002. I was sixteen years old before turning to seventeen in two weeks.

Whatsapp Messages For Initial Delay In A-Levels

The School Counselor Business Card

You can verify age based on how worn out the card is. It is quite surprising why I still have this in my wallet for over all these years. I thank my younger self for this!

Both sides of my worn out school counselor's business card.

Grades Over The Years (IGCSE, A-Levels, Bachelor Degree)

Notice how the grades gets worse over the years.

Public Healthcare Medical Card For First Time Mental Illness Treatment In Malaysia

Notice that this is years since I was first sent to the school university counselor. This means that my parents have ample time to re-evaluate their decision as everything about my life goes to shit.

Evidence That Disproves The Severity Of Stigma

JPJ Policy On Mental Illnesses For Driving License

Official Policies

Note: Notice that these are for vocational driving license, not a personal one. Hence, the rules are likely more relaxed for personal driving license. If you read the policies further, you will notice that the revocation is limited to a subset of mental illnesses, but even then it can be restored if the person is receiving treatment.